* disclaimer: this is not directed at anyone in particular, it is just things that I have witnessed with lots of people that I know. If you think you and your significant other are having problems, TALK TO THEM. Thank you.
Do you know what bugs me a lot? When people who are in relationships cheat. I don't understand. Either you want to be with the person, or you don't. Make up your mind, and don't freakin hurt anyone in the process. Yes, I know you may have a crush on someone, or imagine them naked or blah blah blah, but come ON. You are in a relationship with someone for a reason, clearly they mean something to you, so why would you do something so stupid as to cheat on them?
This really really bugs me. I don't think I can explain it to the magnitude that I feel. Why bother hurting people's feelings? You clearly have to figure it out in your head, do I want to be with the person I am with, or do I want to be with this other person? You need to figure that out BEFORE you do anything with the other person. I mean seriously, COME ON. You have to leave one job before you start another, what is the difference. (Unless you have 2 jobs....and some people are with more than one person....but I would assume that both parties involved are ok with that. Or at least they should be....)
Ok, final words: Use your brain, not your sexual organs to make decisions. Try not to hurt anyone in the process. AND DON'T FUCKING CHEAT.
Sometimes it's not about sex.
ReplyDeleteI never said it was about sex. Cheating can be other things.
ReplyDeleteFirst off, you know pretty much most things about me, but I'm not sure if you know that I was with someone who I cared deeply for for almost a year when I found out she was with someone else the entire time.
ReplyDeleteSometimes people love more than one person, and sometimes it's harder than you could ever know to explain that to either person involved. It's even harder to explain it to yourself. If it were as easy as just being with one person, then it would be, well, easy.
Heart vs. brain vs. real life.
Waffles, I've thought about this, and I don't know what I can say. I understand what you are saying about it being hard, but I think that people should be honest with each other, and not do this sort of thing. That's all that I was going for.
ReplyDeleteI understand that people can love more than one person, but I think both people should know about it, because it's not really fair to anyone involved.
I love you :)