pet peeve

If one more person says to me: "oh, you went to culinary school, can you decorate a cake for me?" i'm going to punch someone.


that is all.

family

For a long time I wanted to move out, because I couldn't stand my family. Lately it's been getting better, and I've actually had some time alone, and been able to coexist with these people in a manner that didn't make me crazy.

But then there's my sister sometimes. She leaves to go be with friends, and I'm all chilling in the living room eating and watch stuff on my computer, and playing with the cats and stuff. I've having a half decent time. She comes home, and says: Brandon's coming over, go put some clothes on. She proceeds to turn on the tv, and settle herself in, so if I want to continue what I was watching, I have to go to my room. Brandon comes over, and they start acting like idiots.

I was like, uh, wait, wasn't I here first? Can't you go elsewhere? Earlier she spent the morning with him on speakerphone, which was loud enough to hear from the other end of the house, but I wasn't supposed to listen. I hate having a day off when she does, because I feel like she's not considerate of ME, while I have to be SUPER considerate of her.

Once in awhile I'd just like to be able to come home and not to have worry about her stupid friends being here. On the rare occasions that I DO have friends over, we usually stick to the downstairs and try to out of people's way.

I'm frustrated. While she is the "good" daughter, I feel like she's horrible to me. *sigh*

a rant

* disclaimer: this is not directed at anyone in particular, it is just things that I have witnessed with lots of people that I know. If you think you and your significant other are having problems, TALK TO THEM. Thank you.

Do you know what bugs me a lot? When people who are in relationships cheat. I don't understand. Either you want to be with the person, or you don't. Make up your mind, and don't freakin hurt anyone in the process. Yes, I know you may have a crush on someone, or imagine them naked or blah blah blah, but come ON. You are in a relationship with someone for a reason, clearly they mean something to you, so why would you do something so stupid as to cheat on them?

This really really bugs me. I don't think I can explain it to the magnitude that I feel. Why bother hurting people's feelings? You clearly have to figure it out in your head, do I want to be with the person I am with, or do I want to be with this other person? You need to figure that out BEFORE you do anything with the other person. I mean seriously, COME ON. You have to leave one job before you start another, what is the difference. (Unless you have 2 jobs....and some people are with more than one person....but I would assume that both parties involved are ok with that. Or at least they should be....)

Ok, final words: Use your brain, not your sexual organs to make decisions. Try not to hurt anyone in the process. AND DON'T FUCKING CHEAT.

Dear Family:

Dear Family,

In case you haven't noticed, here is a few things you should know about me.

1. Don't expect me to make important decisions at 6 am. Or any decisions at 6 am really, unless they involve going back to sleep
2. I'm 22. Not 10, not 4, not 18, 22. I'm a legal adult, I can drive, I can drink, I can fight for my country, get married (but not to a woman), and have children. I can buy a house, apply for a mortgage, get a credit card, and open my own business. Remember this please, when you talk to me.
3. I have 3 jobs. I don't have free time. When you ask me: what are you doing? Chance are I'm working, eating, sleeping, driving, or trying to relax for a half second.
4. I like sleep. When I'm not working, I want to get extra sleep. Respect this please.
5. Don't act like a bitch to me when you're around your friends. All it does it make me want to hurt you.
6. If you ask me to do something, I will do it. It might not be RIGHT NOW or when you want me to do it, but it will get done. If you want it done RIGHT NOW tell me please. It will save everyone lots of trouble.
7. Yes, I know I have to work with you, and you don't like it. But don't treat me like shit. Treat me like a fellow employee. K thanks.
8. When I buy food, sometimes I buy it and want to share it with you. Sometimes it's all for me. When I tell you it's all for me, DON'T FUCKING EAT IT.
   
9. Sometimes I get stressed out. Yelling at me then is not a good idea.
10. Holidays stress me out more than they do you. Yes, you have to cook and clean and such. I have to make thousands of pies and deal with a boss who is freaking out. Then I get to leave and go to my other job. I win.

I have to go to work now. This is just a short list, there is many many more to come. :)